Wednesday, August 5, 2020

Meeting Minutes 8/3/2020

BUF Black Lives Matter Ministry Action Team Meeting

Minutes:  Monday, August 3, 2020

 

The business/planning meeting was held at 6 pm on zoom.  Present: Barbara Gilday, Judy Fruhbach, Amoret Heise, Cat McIntyre, Henry Ohana, Lauralee Carbone, David Curley, Genia Allen, Claire Lending, Murray Bennett, Mary Alden, Susie Walker

 

Agenda:

1.  Eracism minutes

2.  8th Principle update

3.  Rapid Response Telephone Tree 

4.  Black Lives Matter banner

 

1. Eracism minutes.

            Aug. 9             Mary Alden

            Aug. 16           Barbara Gilday

            Aug. 23           Henry Ohana

            Aug. 30           Lauralee Carbone

 

Everyone giving an Eracism minute should be sure to contact Rev. Paul by Wednesday before the service to introduce themselves, discuss the focus of the service and learn whether they should attend a rehearsal.

 

2.  8th Principle update.  The August 2 service with guests Bruce Pollock-Johnson and Paula Cole-Jones, from Philadelphia and Maryland, respectively, was well received. 

 

Genia very much wants to help organize/facilitate adult classes this year, (in addition to what we're doing in RE) about anti-racism issues and action. She has ordered Widening the Circle/the 8th Principle and will be exploring a possible class/discussion on that, and would also like to help organize a multi-gen service on how to be an ally if that fits in with the BLM vision. She asked what classes, focus groups or topics would be useful and she will get them scheduled. 

 

She also suggested some "movie nights" where we show a movie on zoom (or have a set time for people to watch it on their own), with a discussion afterwards could be fun. Popcorn, chocolate and wine will be encouraged.

 

She has ordered some important books on anti-racism, and can make those available on a check out basis:

            So you want to talk about race

            White Fragility

            Widening the Circle

            Stamp

            How to be an anti-racist

 

The 8th Principle work group will do the service on August 16. We discussed what BLM would like included:

 

§ Focus on parts of the Eighth principle that apply to congregational life

§ Why is the 8th principal important and what is the goal

§ Describe what change would look like

§ Engage Black speakers/ministers

§ How we welcome new people

§ Skit "do's and don'ts" (Lauralee said she would work on this)

§ Longer interactive "coffee hour" discussion

§ RE description (if Genia is available)

 

The coffee hour discussion should have assigned hosts for each group. Each group will include: 1) a facilitator, who assures that participants follow guidelines for how long each person speaks, and without repeats until all have been given the opportunity to speak; and 2) another person to provide history and answer questions. (Facilitators don't answer questions or provide history.)

 

We will provide these suggestions on behalf of Black Lives Matter MAT to the 8th principle working group that is designing the August 16 service.

 

3. Rapid Response Telephone Tree.  Genia and Henry have been working on this. They have designated 11 callers, each of whom would call 4-5 people. Cat McIntyre would be the originator, to call and send info, by text and email, to the 11 callers to pass on. Cat would like the list to be refined to invite others in the congregation to participate and allow people now on the list to opt out. We decided that Lauralee and Hank will write up a blurb for MWU and buf-news to describe the Rapid Response Team concept and invite people to call Cat if they want to join. The Rapid Response concept may also be presented at the August 16 service.

 

4. Black Lives Matter Banner. Lauralee suggested it is time to put up a Black Lives Matter banner outside the church. The poster is no longer in the outside notice board. We should contact Judy Kasper about the process for getting this hung, and how to make the banner.

 

Next meeting: Program meeting Monday, August  10 at 7 pm; business and planning meeting, Sept. 7(??this is Labor Day).

 

Respectfully submitted

Cat McIntyre, co-facilitator

 

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